- Today is the last day of my sixth Whole 30, which means now I have to decide what comes next. I'm thinking the same thing I always think: it's so good for my energy and self-discipline (and waistline), and so ridiculously restrictive. Probably I add in legumes and some dairy, while keeping grains to a minimum and added sugar pretty much at zero. Probably.
- I'm also thinking about work accountability. Time-tracking is a good discipline because it compels me to keep thinking about what I'm doing with my life, hour by hour. There's a Slack channel run by some Ravelry folks that might offer a good level of low-dose accountability. I've been hesitant to participate because they all seem like good pals. But probably "would you like an invitation to our Slack channel?" was not secret code for "just don't participate because that would be annoying." I think I'll give it a whirl.
- In my ideal world, kid activities would not be more than 10 minutes away from my house. Pete's soccer team practices 15 minutes away, out in the middle of nowhere, and I will be very happy when soccer season is over. Stella is interested in taking gymnastics at a place that's 20 minutes away; I don't think I can do that cheerfully on a weeknight. Over the course of my time-tracking week I spent something like six hours driving, including my trip to visit Joe on Saturday. That's, like, three weeks' worth of driving squashed into one for me. There are so many people in this world who routinely drive six hours a week. Probably any of them reading this post are thinking that this sounds very silly. It's good to know your own limits, right?
It makes me super sad to think of how much time I spend in a car each week (most days at least 4 hours per day)...maybe this is why keeping track of my time scares me. I'm afraid it would look like work, car, housekeeping tasks in that order.
Posted by: Gina | September 19, 2017 at 12:41 AM
I took a new job with a 52 minute commute. All but one of my adult jobs have had 45-60 minute commutes. My last job was 4-6 minutes and I'm spoiled for this long commute now. It's a struggle spending 10 hours a week in the car JUST to get to work and back. Our goal was always to consolidate into one city for school, work, and home and I can't seem to make it happen. One day last week I had to take Henry to the ENT, 35 minutes each way. Then to work, 52 minutes each way. Then Henry to Clarinet, 35 minutes each way. AND I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO DIE. I wish my local job had paid enough to keep doing it.
Posted by: Rayne of Terror | September 19, 2017 at 10:06 AM
Six Whole 30s! That's pretty impressive.
Posted by: el-e-e | September 19, 2017 at 01:26 PM
"But probably "would you like an invitation to our Slack channel?" was not secret code for "just don't participate because that would be annoying.""
Oh, does this take me back to my grad school. How many invitations I turned down because the Imposter Voice in the back of my head said, "They don't really want you to come along. They're just being polite; you were sitting right there, so they HAD to ask you."
It took a tremendous act of will for me to tell myself, "That's silly. They asked. Believe them. Besides, if you keep turning them down, they'll stop asking." It was a real leap of faith, to take a deep breath, swallow my fear and self-doubt, and say, "Yes, thank you."
It still goes against my grain sometimes; I have to work at it. But the Imposter Voice is getting SLIGHTLY less loud. And I sort of have a policy of saying yes even when I'm uncertain. Having a policy makes it more likely that I stick to it. I'm always glad I did, in the end. =)
Posted by: Kristin | September 20, 2017 at 05:54 PM
(It also occurred to me that doubting myself sometimes looked like I was doubting other people's genuine good intentions...and that wasn't any more fair to them than it was to me. But it took me a while to evolve that far...and I still devolve from time to time.)
Posted by: Kristin | September 20, 2017 at 05:59 PM
(laughing a little bit)
I don't mind at all you complaining about six hours of driving in a week because I understand most people don't have the 80 mile (one way) mega-commute I have! Thankfully I only need to go MWF!
Oh, this whole "doubting oneself" and imposter syndrome discussion take me to a dark dark place. Last year I had one of the most horribly humiliating experiences of my life caused by me -- and the worst part was not realizing it was my very own stupid fault until an excruciating hour had gone by. Sigh... I will email you the story. It's too embarrassing and devastating to share semi-publicly. It would be good to "get it off my chest" as people say... Sigh... (again, all I do is "sighing"!). ;-P
Posted by: L-Mama(e) in Translation | September 25, 2017 at 10:08 PM